tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6824663283432209577.post323445134210596406..comments2023-10-16T15:14:36.089+01:00Comments on A rape survivors blog: The appeal to prosecute him as been deniedLizzie31_7http://www.blogger.com/profile/17085283357449003316noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6824663283432209577.post-19294372142248393312012-09-11T12:19:52.935+01:002012-09-11T12:19:52.935+01:00http://myrapestory1.blogspot.com.au/http://myrapestory1.blogspot.com.au/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6824663283432209577.post-5035722497297634642012-05-26T05:55:11.018+01:002012-05-26T05:55:11.018+01:00I was raped not even a month ago.
I was walking ba...I was raped not even a month ago.<br />I was walking back from Crown Casino in Melbourne and met this guy, he came up to my hotel room, i decided then not to have sex with him, he threw me on the bed and made me.<br />I finally got him off me and ran out crying, the police were called, i had a medical and made a statement, they still havent gotten a statement off my friends, and he told the police it was consentual. Im so scared he may get off. He raped me, i dont want him getting away with it, he has a 6 month pregnant gf at home, who rapes someone when you have a pregnant girlfriend? I dont want him to get away with what he did, it will give me no closure and show men its okay to rape, you will get away with it.<br />Im so glad you made your blog! I started mine 6 days after my rape.<br />I had to make it private as the police told me to, as if it goes to court and he gets hold of it, it couldnt be used against me. Feel free to add me on it and ill accept :)<br /><br />http://myrapestory1.blogspot.com.au<br /><br />:)Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13036794365856876938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6824663283432209577.post-38788741930396180842011-06-14T21:44:36.361+01:002011-06-14T21:44:36.361+01:00Tears welled up in my eyes as i read this. I wish ...Tears welled up in my eyes as i read this. I wish i could have cried properly but i haven't cried in a while :-(<br /><br />I read this with such shock and disbelief. How this happens in this modern day world i have no idea! and the truly shocking thing is....this happens to 94% of people who report!!! I think thats why i find it so hard to believe and accept, because it truly is unbelievable. I can't even begin to tell you how sorry i am, the words are not enough.<br /><br />Right now in this moment, he has won, you are his victim. I feel i can say this because i am in the same situation as you and i know how this feels. But i have to believe he has NOT won forever, you will NOT be his victim forever. You might not realise it but you have already begun to take back what he took from you. Bit by bit, piece by piece you WILL claim it all back! You will find yourself again, you will be strong, you ARE a survivor. You may not have justice from your country but you will have justice in life. You will take it all back, no longer be his victim but a survivor, you will find yourself again, you will be a strong person, you will continue helping others like you are now and with all that.....you will win!! and have a fantastic happy life which you fully deserve! How easy would it be to give up and end it all, but your not, you are still here and breathing. Because of all of this you will win.<br /><br />Please when you get desperate...hold onto that thought!<br /><br />xx<br /><br />P.S - So sorry this comment is ridiculously long and i no doubt babbled on about nothing lol sorry, you know what im like :-PMissPinkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02337301364412891857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6824663283432209577.post-17677472937571668712011-06-13T15:42:13.973+01:002011-06-13T15:42:13.973+01:00Thanks everyone for your comments. I'm not cop...Thanks everyone for your comments. I'm not coping to well. I'm tired of waiting for things to get better. It would be easier to just give up and give in to it.Lizzie31_7https://www.blogger.com/profile/17085283357449003316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6824663283432209577.post-34486087112971878212011-06-13T01:44:49.807+01:002011-06-13T01:44:49.807+01:00I know the injustice of this is maddening, confusi...I know the injustice of this is maddening, confusing and hurtful. He has not won. You are here and you are the voice of so many others just like you who have had to endure this pain. We are here listening.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6824663283432209577.post-15277306307686591602011-06-11T05:15:42.206+01:002011-06-11T05:15:42.206+01:00Sheepfoldcarer is right. We are listening. And r...Sheepfoldcarer is right. We are listening. And right now, we are holding a safe place for you to be right where you are.<br /><br />When you are ready. . . to share, talk, write, check in with someone who cares, we are here.<br /><br />♥(((HUGS)))Sharon Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00695395104518983907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6824663283432209577.post-88042078940046156452011-06-10T21:10:48.337+01:002011-06-10T21:10:48.337+01:00So sorry for your pain. I hope you can find some p...So sorry for your pain. I hope you can find some peace after the shock has subsided.<br />Keep talking, many of us are listening.<br />#we refuse to be silent.<br />@sheepfoldcarerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com